VenusDiSirius Sun and Venus on/around Dsc=alluring as potential partner. Very old-fashioned perspective,eligible,as u said; Also they could be those kind of people one ends up with because it's socially convenient relationship.
I have my Venus is conjuct descendant. So I think you actually might be on to something.
You talk of obsession which seems Plutonian in general. I think many people yearn for deep unions/partnerships however I think it's how they manage that and why they truly desire that.
My chart is Pluto heavy and so , yes, I probably do believe that Pluto has a role to play in my obsession. Did I also mention that it conjucts Venus in the 7th house? Yikes!
NativelyJoan
The 7th and 8th houses are my two strongest planet placements.
Me too!
Wow people, this is a little freaky. I have 4 7th house placements(if you include the Point of Fortune) and 6 8th house placements(if I include the Vertex and South Node)
NativelyJoan
Relationships are the center of my world. I don't mean romantic relationships I mean even the relationship I have with my local foods market. People make my world go round. I've learned most of my life lessons through my interactions with other people. Do I need other people to survive no, but interacting with others makes living life worth while. Joy and Happiness shared.
I don't know whether relationships are really the centre of my world as I have been living most of my life as a loner. I guess it has always been a defense mechanism because I fear letting people in or whatever.
NativelyJoan
What's the rush for deep companionship? When I was younger in relationships I tended to sacrifice myself to maintain peace and I've shed those traits through many metamorphosis's. At this stage of evolution, I can no longer tolerate anything less than equality and until that stares me deeply and truthfully in the eyes I'll be happy to ride out this life solo. You should think honestly about why you need a union with another so deeply. Aspects points to patterns or possibilities, but only you know the truth.
Yes, I tried to look at it from that point of view and you are right, there are deeper issues than that.
Truthfully though, I feel very lonely at this point in my life. Must be something about the pendulum swinging the other way; where I used to think that I don't need anyone, I can do things for myself and am my own person etc. I have become more corporative, more group conscious and more insecure about not being able to relate with others.
Stawr
So I have Uranus and Neptune in the 8th house.
So do I
But I have yet to figure out their role in the bigger scheme of things, far from being exclusive.
frankie2912
I find that mindset and "obsession" typical of Cancers.
My moon is in Cancer. I never thought of it like that.Hmmm.....
amelia28
having scorpio in the 7th house could make you obsessed I would think about meeting the ideal partner.
Right on the money. From the get-go, that placement is a recurring theme in my chart.
I guess beyond the norms of 5th,7th,8th house Venus/Pluto associated placements, there is nothing else beyond them.
Thank you all. Much has been learned thus far.